[Shining tapped his chin thoughtfully, gauging her response before slowly replying.] It sounds like, while you are not certain if you love him yet, there are strong feelings.

Feelings of protection, adoration, and probably at the very least some need to keep him safe, and hope he grows into a strong man.

Sounds like me, when I was in my foalhood years actually. I was... not the most popular pony in Canterlot High. Far from it. And yet I adored Cadance, and wanted to spend the rest of my life with her. It took some courage to finally realize that part of myself that could take a step forward.

And it took a lot of courage for her, the smart, popular girl, to take a step in my direction. So I think in a way, your friend may very well become the person you rely on for all of your life.