Tazendra did fight for enjoyment, but she realized not everyone is like her. "If he is likely to return, even if you abdicate, then perhaps there is no question of choice. Save that I doubt he could reach you here."

Which was something. No need to worry about problems at home when there were problems that were more pressing. This was probably why Tazendra's barony was effectively run by her steward and his staff, while she ran off adventuring.